The 19 lifestyle profiles
19 profiles
Lifestyle vocabulary is mostly about understanding each other quickly. Here are the 19 profiles this test distinguishes, grouped by family, with what separates each one from its closest neighbor.
Swapping
7 profilesLetting bodies move around: from soft swap that stops before penetration to a threesome where no one is the third.
- Side-by-side swingerGroup energy, two-person bodies.
- Soft swapperDiscovering other bodies, without going through the final door.
- Same-room full swapperSwapping everything, but together, within sight.
- Full Swap 2+2Each of you has your own scene, and the reunion is more than worth it.
- Desire SharerDesire goes where it wants — nothing to balance out.
- Threesome LoverWith three, everything changes — and that’s exactly what you’re looking for.
- Orgy loverNo center, no script — scale and flow.
The Gaze
2 profilesSeeing, being seen, teasing. Here, desire passes first through the eyes — yours or other people’s.
Candaulism
7 profilesDesire experienced through the other person: their pleasure becomes yours, whether you’re present, absent, or in on it.
- CandaulistYour pleasure runs through theirs, and through your gaze.
- Directive candaulistYou shape the encounter where you won’t be the center.
- Participatory candaulistPresent, active, and never just a passive spectator.
- HotwifeYour encounters belong to you first.
- CuckoldThe thrill of giving up your place for the length of a scene.
- CuckqueanGiving up your place, and finding your thrill in it.
- HothusbandYour encounters are yours, and the telling is part of the pleasure.
The Third
2 profilesJoining a couple without being part of it. A place in its own right, with its own rules.
Group
1 profilesSeveral people, in numbers. What changes here is the place you occupy in the scene.
And you, where do you fit?
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